Being You ! GO GIRL






I was meeting a few girls who are pursuing management and are getting prepared to march into the corporate world, they have ambitions and drive and want to make it big for themselves .The discussion was revolving around the huge expectation from Management graduates specially women .I am frequently asked this “What should we do “, how should we behave”, some specific skills that are required to be successful .I tried to put some pointers to it –
                                                                       
1.      Self-belief – The key skill for being successful in any venture or journey is to believe in yourself ,believe that you have it in you and you are born to lead .Tell yourself every morning you are born to lead and be successful ,look at yourself in the mirror and tell that girl looking back at you with reassurance “You are beautiful ,you are born to lead and nothing can stop you “-when you do this the girl in the mirror smiles back at you and is ready to win the world.

2.      Just be you – We are all born different, look different, behave different and react differently to situations! if GOD wanted us to be the same he would have created us alike ,but that’s not the case ,each one of us has a unique personality and strengths ,each one of us has a purpose .Don’t try and be someone else ,don’t imitate ,shine like a star just be you !! That’s a rare quality
3.      Perfection –that’s not a human quality, every day of our lives we try to be perfect –Perfect girlfriends, mom, team mate, sister and the list goes on.. .No No we can’t be perfect and trying to be perfect at everything is not possible .Just be good at what you do put it your best but don’t kill yourself over perfection.
4.      Trust your gut feelings – We all have that moment, split second before we take any decision a little voice tells us this is good or not good for you .We must learn to always trust our gut feeling ,if you feel something is good for you –DO IT and if you know it is not and you are getting into because of pressure or anything else ,pl be confident and say NO .It will feel little odd in the beginning but then you feel liberated .Don’t get under pressure .It is your life –U decide !
5.      Pack some love – This is the most important ingredient, you should pack some love for your own self, we get so busy in ticking off the to do list that we forget to love ourselves, appreciate ourselves .Take time out for yourself make a promise to love and look after your own self, in this fast paced life if you don’t care about yourself no one else will.
With these pearls we are all set to conquer the world and make a mark .Go girl!! Lead the world  

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